orgasm controlOrgasm control is reaching and retaining the painful sensations of orgasm, without allowing an ejaculation. It is a skill that requires stimulation accuracy, distraction tactics and orgasm acceptance, to get there it just takes some different masturbation techniques.
Now, regarding orgasm, it’s a yes or no question, either you feel the orgasmic pain, or you do not? If the pain doesn’t arrive, or it subsides and disappears, then the sensations are not orgasmic. Of course we all know that orgasm and ejaculation are 2 separate things, and that ejaculation is a reaction to the orgasm. Orgasm control requires not reacting in the normal way.
But first a word about orgasmic pain, it’s not a pain that harms, like blowing it up, or bruising or breaking the penis. It’s a beautifully addictive pain that is sustainable with accurate stimulation. It causes no harm, but it remains greedy for more stimulation, meaning ongoing pain, to keep the orgasmic sensations alive. With skill you can choose the level of orgasmic pain that you can tolerate, so you can stay there, and enjoy it, but again without allowing an ejaculation to happen.
You can’t ride an orgasm that you cant’t feel, and that applies to 2nd rate pre-orgasmic sensations. Pre-orgasm is a nice way of saying not orgasm, let’s be honest.
It’s no wonder we don’t last longer in pre-orgasm, it’s because the sensations aren’t all that good. Pre-orgasm is unridable because there are very few sensations to focus on. It’s like a bloodhound following a scent, except there is no scent to follow. This is why all efforts to last longer before the orgasm fail. Let’s face it we all know what pre-orgasm feels like, so we could all stay there, if we wanted to. It turns out that worldwide men prefer orgasm to pre-orgasm.
To control an orgasm you have to keep feeling and feeding the hot sensations of the orgasm, but the orgasm needs to be kept alive with the correct amount of stimulation, all the time. It’s a question of focus.
Like the elephant in the room, ejaculation is always out there, ready to pounce, but here’s the thing, we pull the trigger and the ejaculation happens, and that’s the end. That’s right, we choose to pull the trigger when it’s “too much” but we could choose not to without too much effort, other than practicing hard, so to speak. When you choose not to pull the trigger, it opens the door to more awesome sensations that you would never have felt, had the trigger been pulled at the normal level of excitement.
Another thing to know is that the stop/start method or edging is not orgasm control, it’s the opposite, the orgasm is controlling, when the “edger” has to stop.
Orgasm control is having the skill and accuracy, to not need to stop.
Orgasm control is controlling when the orgasm ends, and with a choice of wether it ends with a squirt, or without one?
Orgasm control is choosing the amount of orgasmic pain that you are comfortable with, while stimulating accurately to stay at that level.
Orgasm control is and always trying to push the limits, and dare and double dare the ejaculation urge to fire.
Orgasm control is confidence in the readiness to perform.
Orgasm control is finding the sweet spot of tolerable pain, to be able to ride it, for as long as you want.
Orgasm control allows raising the orgasm’s pain, as much as possible, so the ejaculation urge really, really, really wants to fire.
Orgasm control allows a stop, and a later restarting off the orgasm, with no down time, if one is startled, or has something else to do.
Orgasm control is never having to say sorry.
Orgasm control is a skill that any man can learn and every man would love.
Orgasm control should be mainstream and taught to teenage men.
Orgasm control is intense sensations that are not acted upon, when they ordinarily would be.
Orgasm control makes me happy and makes me feel healthy.
Orgasm control helps towards anger control.
Orgasm control could make the world happier, one penis, and one penis’s partner at a time.
Orgasm control is a lifelong skill rewarded by more and more awesome sensations. This is hours of extra orgasm that the body is willing to give you, if you treat it right.
Orgasm control is easy, it’s like having your cake and eating it, but not icing it, so to speak. It’s ready to perform at peak day after day, after day because no excitement, or semen, is squirted out.
So how do you thwart an ejaculation urge that has kept this species alive and operates with a nearly 100% success rate.
The best way to shut down the ejaculation urge, is to learn the Longasmmm method. It’s endurance while feeling the most fabulous orgasmic sensations, and that’s why it works. It’s called endurance but endurance is usually doing something we don’t like, this is enduring pleasure which I am very happy to do.
Not to boast, just to show what is possible, my 1hr 45min orgasmic record is on Pornhub the Longasmmm channel, and I loved every minute of it. It ended when the camera’s battery went out, while my battery had plenty of juice left in it. We are trying to show how easy it is to last as long as you want, when you learn orgasm control, the Longasmmm way. Our videos are not designed to excite anyone, they are just to show how easy endurance is, and what you can do with it. 
The videos are unusual in that they show sexual penetration and full body massage, without stopping to cool down. Remembering the often used method of giving a massage to get into her panties, it works even better when you can combine the two at the same time. This is giving a sexual massage and always getting laid, that’s another benefit of orgasm control, and you know for an old guy like myself, it sounds better to offer a massage, rather than ask for sex.
P.P.S. Did you know that a sexual massage allows a man to push his love into his partner, with his hands and his penis at the same time, all while riding the most awesomely powerful, controlled, non squirting orgasm. Women would love a sexual massage and being pampered, and the world would be a lot happier if they were pampered and penetrated at the same time, by a man who could ride his orgasm, for as long as he and she want the connection to continue.
Thanks for reading this essay, Ian Cox.